one cup of biological sex,
male or female (or perhaps neither…. or perhaps both?);
some tablespoons of gender,
doesn’t have to be the same as the sex;
a dash of expression,
adjust the femininity to your liking;
a pinch of orientation,
add more and more til you’re head over heels for someone,
and think that they’re the one;
and finally,
a little bit of whoever you want to be,
it’s your dish, after all;
make it your own.
P.S. Don’t forget the butter.